Monday, October 31, 2011

It's Okay

It’s Okay If . . . . .

• The only pair of shoes that are suitable for walking all over this ginormous university campus are ugly as sin.



• I stayed up until 1 am on Sunday night putting together an evaluation plan and timeline.

• And then stayed up until 2:30am watching The Office.



• I switch my allegiance from the Cincinnati Reds to the St. Louis Cardinals due to an amazing World Series.



• I bought new pajamas in anticipation of my upcoming travels.

• I am excited about being home for the holidays.



• That my car makes me feel slightly grown-up.




• And even if everyone and the New York Times says it’s a great book, I didn’t like it.

Thursday, October 27, 2011

Why We Can't be Friends.

Why we can’t be friends:

1. Whenever I talk to you, I will always think of you with her and that hurts me.

2. I value my friends and want to be a very good friend to them. You don’t deserve that level of kindness and devotion from me anymore.

3. An important aspect of friendship is trust and honesty; you have given me neither.

4. I forgive too easily and if we’re friends, I will forgive you and it will become a slippery slope.

5. You hurt me. There’s plenty of badness and unkindness in this world that I don’t need to invite more of that into my life.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d7XR0OSFlzo

Monday, October 17, 2011

Commuting

Head ache. Sore throat. Rosy cheeks. Long commute.

This past month has been a whirlwind. And it was exactly what I needed to move forward. Coming to a new city I’ve not been to before and figuring things out couldn’t have been planned at a better time. St. Louis had too many memories and Cincinnati is too close to home. Where I am now is a nice compromise. I’m away from all those memories and that entwined life and yet I’m not too far from home.

One of the best pieces of advice I got recently was once I’ve made a decision, to stick to it and not look back. I think often times, I’ve been prone to play the “what if” game and it can undermine my confidence and determination. I’ve shut the door on the “what if I had gone another route” game and am focusing on the path that I’m on now.

There have been some bumps on the road I’m on now, things I’m working on ironing out. Housing has been a bit more difficult than I thought it would be in this new city. The commute is quickly wearing me down. I’ve seemed to have caught a bug from a little friend (the one that likes to pinch you until you bleed). Though, by far, I think my biggest challenge will be the political quagmire my new position is nestled in here.

I have several exciting travel plans coming up in the near future. Next month, I am going to D.C. to meet the project funders. In February, I am going to San Diego for a personal trip and in March I am off to Atlanta for another personal trip. I hope to go to the seaside in May or June for a family trip.

Another bonus to this new position is one of my colleagues is Scottish (!). And the first thing he said to me upon meeting me is “Ye Irish are ye?” I laughed and he said “Ye must be with that surname and that wild red hair.” I didn't tell him that it's often my short temper that betrays my Irish roots.

Monday, October 10, 2011

Gulp.

First day of new position.

Walking across the cobblestone, my first thought was "please, please do not let a heel get caught in the cobblestone and fall and twist ankle on day one."

So far, so good.

It's a lot to learn and definitely out of my comfort zone. I have crazy painful blisters on the back of my heels due to leaving my work appropriate shoes in the storage unit in St. Louis and having to wear cute-but-ill-fitting heels.

I think it's going to be okay.

Friday, October 7, 2011

In Case I Forget

"I'm going to pinch you until you bleed."



When did four-year-old girls get so mean?


Of course, this wasn't said to me. Why? Because kids love me.

Why? Because I bribe the hell out of them.

It works.